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		<title>By: Karol</title>
		<link>http://www.ridiculouslyextraordinary.com/blackbook001/comment-page-1/#comment-3308</link>
		<dc:creator>Karol</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Feb 2010 02:31:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for your suggestions Rose!

I definitely need to add more links.

As far as negative references: you and I both know that somebody with lots of vouches, lots of positive references, and one negative reference is probably OK. But this guide is for the absolute newbie. I&#039;m sticking to my suggestion: when you&#039;re starting out stay away from people with negatives.

I&#039;ll update the eBook soon with some of your suggestions! :)

Karol</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for your suggestions Rose!</p>
<p>I definitely need to add more links.</p>
<p>As far as negative references: you and I both know that somebody with lots of vouches, lots of positive references, and one negative reference is probably OK. But this guide is for the absolute newbie. I&#8217;m sticking to my suggestion: when you&#8217;re starting out stay away from people with negatives.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ll update the eBook soon with some of your suggestions! :)</p>
<p>Karol</p>
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		<title>By: Miss Rose</title>
		<link>http://www.ridiculouslyextraordinary.com/blackbook001/comment-page-1/#comment-3297</link>
		<dc:creator>Miss Rose</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 24 Feb 2010 19:39:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Buenas!
Thank you so much for the e-book.  (Mark P pointed me your way.)

My POV - I&#039;ve been a member of CS since three weeks past its inception.  A pretty long time.  I am passionate about CS and it has likewise changed my life tremendously.  www.couchsurfing.org/people/rose

Feedback:  The book is straightforward.  I really like it.  It&#039;s perfect for the beginner.

Critique:  
I encourage you to include more embedded links.  
Page 1 - Your CS profile.
Groups (in both places mentioned)
A link to the Safety page.
SxSW  (There&#039;s no explanation of what this is.)

I completely disagree with your statement that one never should host with a member who has a negative reference.  
I have 169 friends, 34 vouches, and one negative reference.  Based on this alone, odds are that I&#039;m a decent person.
Reading the negative comment both he and I left, clearly we have discrepancies in our experience of one another.  I did make it clear in my reference - he took advantage of me.

Fully reading the negative reference, and the implications of it, is necessary before judging a member as an unfit match.

You stated that when someone replies &quot;no&quot; to your CS hospitality request you do not reply - I believe it is common courtesy to do so if they took the time to reply to you.

Consider including how you have income:  Did you save before your trip?  Do you do freelance?  Do you have residual income?  This is a secret every traveler wants to know.  (HOW does he afford buying so much for his hosts???)

Thanks for asking for feedback!
I wish you the very very bestest, and an extraordinary life every day -

Miss Rose
www.rosebark.blogspot.com
www.couchsurfing.org/people/rose</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Buenas!<br />
Thank you so much for the e-book.  (Mark P pointed me your way.)</p>
<p>My POV &#8211; I&#8217;ve been a member of CS since three weeks past its inception.  A pretty long time.  I am passionate about CS and it has likewise changed my life tremendously.  <a href="http://www.couchsurfing.org/people/rose" rel="nofollow">http://www.couchsurfing.org/people/rose</a></p>
<p>Feedback:  The book is straightforward.  I really like it.  It&#8217;s perfect for the beginner.</p>
<p>Critique:<br />
I encourage you to include more embedded links.<br />
Page 1 &#8211; Your CS profile.<br />
Groups (in both places mentioned)<br />
A link to the Safety page.<br />
SxSW  (There&#8217;s no explanation of what this is.)</p>
<p>I completely disagree with your statement that one never should host with a member who has a negative reference.<br />
I have 169 friends, 34 vouches, and one negative reference.  Based on this alone, odds are that I&#8217;m a decent person.<br />
Reading the negative comment both he and I left, clearly we have discrepancies in our experience of one another.  I did make it clear in my reference &#8211; he took advantage of me.</p>
<p>Fully reading the negative reference, and the implications of it, is necessary before judging a member as an unfit match.</p>
<p>You stated that when someone replies &#8220;no&#8221; to your CS hospitality request you do not reply &#8211; I believe it is common courtesy to do so if they took the time to reply to you.</p>
<p>Consider including how you have income:  Did you save before your trip?  Do you do freelance?  Do you have residual income?  This is a secret every traveler wants to know.  (HOW does he afford buying so much for his hosts???)</p>
<p>Thanks for asking for feedback!<br />
I wish you the very very bestest, and an extraordinary life every day -</p>
<p>Miss Rose<br />
<a href="http://www.rosebark.blogspot.com" rel="nofollow">http://www.rosebark.blogspot.com</a><br />
<a href="http://www.couchsurfing.org/people/rose" rel="nofollow">http://www.couchsurfing.org/people/rose</a></p>
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		<title>By: PowersPercussion : Have Drum, Will Travel &#187; Surf anywhere- for free!</title>
		<link>http://www.ridiculouslyextraordinary.com/blackbook001/comment-page-1/#comment-3293</link>
		<dc:creator>PowersPercussion : Have Drum, Will Travel &#187; Surf anywhere- for free!</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 24 Feb 2010 11:00:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] he released a great [and also FREE!] 39-page eBook all about how to get started CouchSurfing! Go here and then click on any of the &#8220;Ridiculously Extraordinary Black Book #001&#8221; links. Be [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] he released a great [and also FREE!] 39-page eBook all about how to get started CouchSurfing! Go here and then click on any of the &#8220;Ridiculously Extraordinary Black Book #001&#8221; links. Be [...]</p>
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		<title>By: Karol</title>
		<link>http://www.ridiculouslyextraordinary.com/blackbook001/comment-page-1/#comment-3111</link>
		<dc:creator>Karol</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Feb 2010 12:19:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for posting about it Mark! Looking forward to your eBook!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for posting about it Mark! Looking forward to your eBook!</p>
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		<title>By: Mark</title>
		<link>http://www.ridiculouslyextraordinary.com/blackbook001/comment-page-1/#comment-3082</link>
		<dc:creator>Mark</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Feb 2010 09:48:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey, Karol:

I couldn&#039;t agree more- what a fantastic network to be apart of! I just posted about your eBook on my blog. Thanks again for your contribution to mine- I&#039;ll keep you posted!
Enjoy India, and I&#039;ll catch you soon-

Mark</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey, Karol:</p>
<p>I couldn&#8217;t agree more- what a fantastic network to be apart of! I just posted about your eBook on my blog. Thanks again for your contribution to mine- I&#8217;ll keep you posted!<br />
Enjoy India, and I&#8217;ll catch you soon-</p>
<p>Mark</p>
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		<title>By: Surf anywhere! &#171; PowersPercussion : Have drum, will travel</title>
		<link>http://www.ridiculouslyextraordinary.com/blackbook001/comment-page-1/#comment-3081</link>
		<dc:creator>Surf anywhere! &#171; PowersPercussion : Have drum, will travel</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Feb 2010 09:43:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] he released a great [FREE!] 39-page eBook all about how to get started CouchSurfing! Go here and then click on any of the &#8220;Ridiculously Extraordinary Black Book #001&#8221; links. And be [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Rachel</title>
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		<dc:creator>Rachel</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Dec 2009 07:44:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey Karol, excellent book, thank you so much for taking the time to write it. It&#039;s invaluable to see your strategies and I love your whole blog. I&#039;m planning my own extended travel/work stint now (in part inspired by you), and I have a few questions. 

I&#039;m a social introvert too, so I like people but I really need my alone time to feel sane. I&#039;m afraid never having my own space while traveling for a long time will make me nuts. How do you deal with this?

I also could theoretically work from my laptop anywhere in the world, but I feel that could get tricky. How many hours a week do you work? Do you have trouble getting new gigs after your current ones are done, because people think you&#039;re on vacation? Do you ever struggle with switching between the on-vacation/on-the-job mindset? I&#039;m interested in any tips you have.

Rachel</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey Karol, excellent book, thank you so much for taking the time to write it. It&#8217;s invaluable to see your strategies and I love your whole blog. I&#8217;m planning my own extended travel/work stint now (in part inspired by you), and I have a few questions. </p>
<p>I&#8217;m a social introvert too, so I like people but I really need my alone time to feel sane. I&#8217;m afraid never having my own space while traveling for a long time will make me nuts. How do you deal with this?</p>
<p>I also could theoretically work from my laptop anywhere in the world, but I feel that could get tricky. How many hours a week do you work? Do you have trouble getting new gigs after your current ones are done, because people think you&#8217;re on vacation? Do you ever struggle with switching between the on-vacation/on-the-job mindset? I&#8217;m interested in any tips you have.</p>
<p>Rachel</p>
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		<title>By: I Spent A Night In Jail + L.A. meetup soon!</title>
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		<dc:creator>I Spent A Night In Jail + L.A. meetup soon!</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 08 Dec 2009 12:30:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Karol</title>
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		<dc:creator>Karol</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 28 Nov 2009 02:06:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You will see negative feedback eventually, but it&#039;s true that not enough people (women especially) leave negative feedback that they should.

As far as my experience: I believe negative feedback should be left for unsafe situations not if somebody is dirty.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You will see negative feedback eventually, but it&#8217;s true that not enough people (women especially) leave negative feedback that they should.</p>
<p>As far as my experience: I believe negative feedback should be left for unsafe situations not if somebody is dirty.</p>
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		<title>By: Jason</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jason</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Nov 2009 16:04:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey, Karol, Your book talks the importance of feedback to the CS community.   However I almost NEVER see a negative feedback (Like in all the time I&#039;ve CSed I&#039;ve seen 1-2 negative comments).   I personally have never had a negative experience but have only surfed 4 times.  It seems like to few and if people are unwilling to leave bad comments it will just lead to others repeating those sucky things.  

To that end, you never left  any negative (or even neutral) feedback for the Aussie city ambassador with the filthy place and non-closing windows?  Why not?

Jason.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey, Karol, Your book talks the importance of feedback to the CS community.   However I almost NEVER see a negative feedback (Like in all the time I&#8217;ve CSed I&#8217;ve seen 1-2 negative comments).   I personally have never had a negative experience but have only surfed 4 times.  It seems like to few and if people are unwilling to leave bad comments it will just lead to others repeating those sucky things.  </p>
<p>To that end, you never left  any negative (or even neutral) feedback for the Aussie city ambassador with the filthy place and non-closing windows?  Why not?</p>
<p>Jason.</p>
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