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		<title>By: Scott</title>
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		<dc:creator>Scott</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Jul 2010 20:03:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think that this is about more than just not watching TV.  This article sounds to me like a conscious search for &quot;flow&quot;  (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Flow_%28psychology%29)

Basically a search for an activity that is neither too hard to be intimidating, nor too easy to be boring that captures your attention until you are going to pee your pants.  :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think that this is about more than just not watching TV.  This article sounds to me like a conscious search for &#8220;flow&#8221;  (<a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Flow_%28psychology%29" rel="nofollow">http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Flow_%28psychology%29</a>)</p>
<p>Basically a search for an activity that is neither too hard to be intimidating, nor too easy to be boring that captures your attention until you are going to pee your pants.  :)</p>
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		<title>By: Dan Strayer</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dan Strayer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Feb 2010 16:21:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;ve started reading books again rather than watch TV.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve started reading books again rather than watch TV.</p>
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		<title>By: I Make You Wanna Jump, Jump + Being Vulgar</title>
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		<dc:creator>I Make You Wanna Jump, Jump + Being Vulgar</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 21 Dec 2009 18:29:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] promised in the Why We Do What We Do article, video of me bombing on Jump by Kris [...]</description>
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		<title>By: John Bardos - JetSetCitizen</title>
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		<dc:creator>John Bardos - JetSetCitizen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Dec 2009 07:45:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am with you here. Turning off our brains to watch TV or to do some other mindless activity, is easy but it is not creating anything productive. It is great that you have the discipline to focus on something important like writing and do it every day. I think we all need a focus like that. 

My problem is that I am always trying to do too much. (Blogs, guitar, exercise, business, language learning, book, etc.) I really need to have one single focus that I do every day no matter what. The trouble is how do I choose?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am with you here. Turning off our brains to watch TV or to do some other mindless activity, is easy but it is not creating anything productive. It is great that you have the discipline to focus on something important like writing and do it every day. I think we all need a focus like that. </p>
<p>My problem is that I am always trying to do too much. (Blogs, guitar, exercise, business, language learning, book, etc.) I really need to have one single focus that I do every day no matter what. The trouble is how do I choose?</p>
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		<title>By: Jason</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jason</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 13 Dec 2009 13:14:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey, Karol,  yet another home run post.

During my first year of grad school I couldn&#039;t afford cable so went with out.  I was also really worried about grades, etc.  Well, I got a 3.84 GPA and scored in the 94th percentile of my national boards.  No TV didn&#039;t hurt.

Of course when I got out of school I got cable as I think had nothing to pursue.  When I became more conscious I again got rid of cable, about two years ago.  I&#039;ve never looked back.  

Further, I began to limit time on the net.  I realized that the net had become my new TV.   So now, I tend to spend some time each week reading some blogs I like (&quot;Read things that remind you of who you are&quot; David Deida) but other than that its mostly factual things, Email, etc.  and devote the rest of my time to &quot;that which enthralls me&quot;

So Ya, Good stuff.

PS Hemingway used to write 500 words a day no matter how he felt.   Good stuff.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey, Karol,  yet another home run post.</p>
<p>During my first year of grad school I couldn&#8217;t afford cable so went with out.  I was also really worried about grades, etc.  Well, I got a 3.84 GPA and scored in the 94th percentile of my national boards.  No TV didn&#8217;t hurt.</p>
<p>Of course when I got out of school I got cable as I think had nothing to pursue.  When I became more conscious I again got rid of cable, about two years ago.  I&#8217;ve never looked back.  </p>
<p>Further, I began to limit time on the net.  I realized that the net had become my new TV.   So now, I tend to spend some time each week reading some blogs I like (&#8220;Read things that remind you of who you are&#8221; David Deida) but other than that its mostly factual things, Email, etc.  and devote the rest of my time to &#8220;that which enthralls me&#8221;</p>
<p>So Ya, Good stuff.</p>
<p>PS Hemingway used to write 500 words a day no matter how he felt.   Good stuff.</p>
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		<title>By: Andy Hawkins</title>
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		<dc:creator>Andy Hawkins</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 12 Dec 2009 06:33:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Another timely post my friend. 

I have recently made a conscious decision to quit, among other things, multitasking. I now get more done, I get more enjoyment out of getting those things done and I seem to have more time to do them in.

I first noticed this when I stopped for lunch. I didn&#039;t listen to the radio, I didnt read the news or surf the web I just sat at the dining table and ate my PB &amp; J sandwich (this was before my decision to become a raw food vegan).

It was the tastiest PB&amp;J sandwich ever. It was the longest lunch (half) hour ever and it was the most fulfilling break in a working day ever.

Being present for that lunch allowed me to appreciate the food like never before, to take the time to actually taste it rather than go through the motions. Time seemed to slow down during my break. And my break was an actual proper break from work, not just a work-from-somewhere-else-while-I-eat period.

Being present means I now only have to do things once so I save time, it also means I&#039;m more prepared and I&#039;m not surrounded by half finished jobs the way I was when I multitasked 24x7.

It&#039;s not always easy and sometimes I catch myself trying to do two things at once but the rewards I get as soon as I unitask are enough to keep me on the straight and narrow for a while.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Another timely post my friend. </p>
<p>I have recently made a conscious decision to quit, among other things, multitasking. I now get more done, I get more enjoyment out of getting those things done and I seem to have more time to do them in.</p>
<p>I first noticed this when I stopped for lunch. I didn&#8217;t listen to the radio, I didnt read the news or surf the web I just sat at the dining table and ate my PB &amp; J sandwich (this was before my decision to become a raw food vegan).</p>
<p>It was the tastiest PB&amp;J sandwich ever. It was the longest lunch (half) hour ever and it was the most fulfilling break in a working day ever.</p>
<p>Being present for that lunch allowed me to appreciate the food like never before, to take the time to actually taste it rather than go through the motions. Time seemed to slow down during my break. And my break was an actual proper break from work, not just a work-from-somewhere-else-while-I-eat period.</p>
<p>Being present means I now only have to do things once so I save time, it also means I&#8217;m more prepared and I&#8217;m not surrounded by half finished jobs the way I was when I multitasked 24&#215;7.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s not always easy and sometimes I catch myself trying to do two things at once but the rewards I get as soon as I unitask are enough to keep me on the straight and narrow for a while.</p>
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		<title>By: Erin</title>
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		<dc:creator>Erin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Dec 2009 17:33:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I used to have a saying that I used when people made fun of me for not watching TV.  &quot;The problem with watching TV is you don&#039;t get any better at it.&quot;  People would look at me as though I were speaking a foreign language, and go back to talking about last night&#039;s reality program.  So I have stopped saying it.

An inspiring post, as always. Nice work.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I used to have a saying that I used when people made fun of me for not watching TV.  &#8220;The problem with watching TV is you don&#8217;t get any better at it.&#8221;  People would look at me as though I were speaking a foreign language, and go back to talking about last night&#8217;s reality program.  So I have stopped saying it.</p>
<p>An inspiring post, as always. Nice work.</p>
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		<title>By: marina</title>
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		<dc:creator>marina</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Dec 2009 22:44:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Karol, 

I know exactly what you mean. I haven&#039;t had a TV since 2005. I do miss it sometimes, because I loved to watch some BBC series and here in the Netherlands we have some really good documentaries, but nowadays I use the internet to stay up to date on world issues (take for example MetropolisTV http://www.metropolistv.nl/?lang=en ).

Thank you so much for sharing this! 

I have been following your website and some others (The Art of Non-Comformity, Zenhabits, Getinthehotspot, The 4hourworkweek, Study Hack and www.flylady.net) for a couple of weeks now and think that you guys are very inspiring! I hope that many more people will be inspired to take a leap and start to live the life they want. 
I have just started with my annual review (like mentioned on The AONC) and have actually bought a Neti Pot like you used, and it actually helped! No more sinusitis for me :)

Thanks again and keep up the good writing!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Karol, </p>
<p>I know exactly what you mean. I haven&#8217;t had a TV since 2005. I do miss it sometimes, because I loved to watch some BBC series and here in the Netherlands we have some really good documentaries, but nowadays I use the internet to stay up to date on world issues (take for example MetropolisTV <a href="http://www.metropolistv.nl/?lang=en" rel="nofollow">http://www.metropolistv.nl/?lang=en</a> ).</p>
<p>Thank you so much for sharing this! </p>
<p>I have been following your website and some others (The Art of Non-Comformity, Zenhabits, Getinthehotspot, The 4hourworkweek, Study Hack and <a href="http://www.flylady.net" rel="nofollow">http://www.flylady.net</a>) for a couple of weeks now and think that you guys are very inspiring! I hope that many more people will be inspired to take a leap and start to live the life they want.<br />
I have just started with my annual review (like mentioned on The AONC) and have actually bought a Neti Pot like you used, and it actually helped! No more sinusitis for me :)</p>
<p>Thanks again and keep up the good writing!</p>
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		<title>By: Amber</title>
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		<dc:creator>Amber</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Dec 2009 00:05:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I couldn&#039;t agree more with getting rid of that damn TV. I too got rid of mine about a year ago now and never looked back. The probably is then you can get addicted to the internet and the constant flow of information coming at you 24/7. I love to learn and grow, but I think it&#039;s really important just to have down time where you go outside and quiet your thoughts. I find I can get addicted to information and not actually living in the real tangible world. I&#039;m with you though! I&#039;d rather learn a second language or workout during those other wise wasted hours in the evening :D</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I couldn&#8217;t agree more with getting rid of that damn TV. I too got rid of mine about a year ago now and never looked back. The probably is then you can get addicted to the internet and the constant flow of information coming at you 24/7. I love to learn and grow, but I think it&#8217;s really important just to have down time where you go outside and quiet your thoughts. I find I can get addicted to information and not actually living in the real tangible world. I&#8217;m with you though! I&#8217;d rather learn a second language or workout during those other wise wasted hours in the evening :D</p>
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		<title>By: Thursday Bram</title>
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		<dc:creator>Thursday Bram</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Dec 2009 22:27:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Being present is incredibly difficult, but incredibly worthwhile. I think you hit the nail on the head when you were describing why you got rid of television: a lot of people literally come home, sit down in front of television and watch it until it&#039;s time to go to bed. (There&#039;s some interesting research out there on the fact that the big push for radio / TV adoption came at the same point when the average worker was actually starting to have time to spend on his own pursuits. I think there&#039;s a connection between the average worker not actually wanting to spend that spare time on anything ambitious.)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Being present is incredibly difficult, but incredibly worthwhile. I think you hit the nail on the head when you were describing why you got rid of television: a lot of people literally come home, sit down in front of television and watch it until it&#8217;s time to go to bed. (There&#8217;s some interesting research out there on the fact that the big push for radio / TV adoption came at the same point when the average worker was actually starting to have time to spend on his own pursuits. I think there&#8217;s a connection between the average worker not actually wanting to spend that spare time on anything ambitious.)</p>
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